In Memoriam

David L. Hitchcock

September 20, 1950 - October 13, 2005

  

This beautiful cross was added to the sanctuary of First Presbyterian Church in Lancaster thanks to funds donated in Dave's memory.  The plaque is inscribed "In loving memory of David L. Hitchcock."  The cross was dedicated on Sunday, July 11, 2006.

First Presbyterian Church, where Dave previously served as an elder, and where Frances continues to serve.  The church celebrated its 150th year of service on Sunday, July 23, 2006.

Miss Me But Let Me Go
Author Unknown

When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me,
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room.
Why cry for a soul set free?

Miss me a little, but not too long,
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that we once shared.
Miss me, but let me go.

For this is a journey we all must take,
And each must go alone.
It’s all a part of the Master’s Plan,
A step on the road to home.

When you are lonely and sick of heart,
Go to the friends we know,
And bury your sorrows in doing good deeds
Miss me, but let me go.


 

 

It's hard to believe that we just celebrated another New Year without Dave.  Fifteen months after his unexpected passing, we still miss him, and find that the sage advice of this poem (above) is difficult to follow.  Perhaps the journey of grief and healing will some day lead us to the point where we can let him go, or perhaps we never really do let go of those we love.  Maybe the real healing lies in letting go of our own grief while holding dear the memories.

   
  



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